Give no scapegoat

I am grateful to past people in my life who have been insensitive and tough - who've PLANTED strength for teaching me to take accountability and responsibility on my decisions and actions.

That strength taught me to give no scapegoats. That strength taught me to detest the idea of recruiting flying monkeys in order to make me feel better when a decision fail. I am responsible for my own happiness, not anyone else's.

Thought I CAN'T save the world, but I CAN always make a difference. There is only so much that I can do. When I decide to do something, I make it a choice to give at will what I can, NOT what they want. There are specific roles people are responsible for. But again, my HAPPINESS is not anyone's responsibility but MINE.

PLANT that in our heart using our head and mind it using our heart.

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